Explore the values
How widely shared values relate — and where they pull against each other. No ranking.
12 values
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Honesty
Saying what you believe is true, and not leaving out what someone needs to know to decide well.
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Compassion
Attending to someone's suffering and letting what you notice change what you do.
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Fairness
Applying the same standard to people in the same situation, including when you would rather not.
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Loyalty
Standing with the people and groups who have stood with you, especially when it costs you something.
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Freedom
Being able to steer your own life, and leaving others room to steer theirs.
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Security
Protecting the stability that lets people plan, rest, and take the risks worth taking.
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Responsibility
Owning what follows from your choices, including the parts nobody would catch you leaving undone.
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Respect
Treating someone as a person with their own standing, boundaries, and reasons, whether or not you agree with them.
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Belonging
Being held by a group that knows you, and holding others in return.
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Achievement
Doing something well enough that it holds up, and building the competence to do it again.
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Humility
Holding an accurate picture of what you know, what you owe, and how much of your success was circumstance.
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Care for Nature
Treating the living world as something owed care, not only as material for our use.